My nephew graduates from high school this week. The prom, schoolwork, and final play (he’s an actor) are behind him. He’ll be headed to college in August. It got me thinking about my own graduation and what career lessons I’ve learned since then. There are many! But I’ll share just eight … and then I’ll email them to my nephew.
1) Get to know yourself and let it be your guide
The better you understand what you value, what energizes you, what you’re good at, and what you want for yourself, the easier it will be to know what career opportunities to pursue.
2) Practice to achieve your greatness
Don’t expect to be great at something without practice. Those who make it look effortless put in a lot of work behind the scenes. You need to put in the work (which is a good reason to pursue what you love).
3) Realize there are ups and downs
The next job doesn’t always lead to more money and a better title. So, when the job is going well, don’t be too carefree with your money thinking “it only gets better from here.”
4) Know your loved ones don’t always know what’s best for you
Realize you may have to risk upsetting those you love to pursue your own passions. They want your safety and security, which are good things to have. However, if they suggest you become an accountant when you want to be a film director (true story), they’re not focused on your happiness.
5) Be of service
The best thing you can do is find a way to use your gifts to help others.
6) Don’t search, create
Don’t’ bother going out into the world in search of yourself or your passions. Get clarity from the inside (mind, body, intuition) and create what you want for yourself.
7) Value your relationships
Sometimes it’s who you know. Stay in touch with great friends and coworkers – yes, because they can help you when opportunities arise AND so you can help them.
8) Enjoy the journey
Often I’ve been so focused on my future goals, I have not appreciated the present moment. Time goes by so quickly (as my gray hairs prove), so cherish the now and enjoy the journey.
What are some career lessons you’d share with your younger self?
I’d add, Make a move. Mom and dad or even your best friend won’t be a few minutes away. Living in a different city or country can broaden your perspectives and help you grow in ways you would never imagine. Plus the sense of confidence that develops from taking care of yourself is invaluable.
Thanks for sharing MissMoy! I know I found it valuable to “move away” from the family for college for the reasons you mentioned. Affordability may be a factor for some families.